WOMEN’S SPIRITUALITY AND THEOLOGICAL EDUCATION
Sunitha Noronha
We are celebrating a great landmark in the history
of women’s movement in general and Christian Women’s Movement in
particular i.e. the celebration of the Silver Jubilee of Women’s
Ordination in India, particularly in the Church of South India. I
wish to congratulate all ordained women for their determination to do
God’s will in their life and the life of our society and Church.
As women, ordination is our birthright, but some
times one is sorry to say that we have to struggle for it in the
Church. Who is the Church after all? Aren’t women ‘the’
Church? If yes, then why are we struggling to ger ordination in
so many of our church’s denominations?
However, I trust that like the Church of South India
and several other Churches, women’s ordination will soon be a reality
in all denominations.
The topic of my Bible Study is “Women’s Spirituality
and Theological Education”. Being a Methodist, I have taken the
liberty to use illustrations from the context of the Methodist Church
in India.
Introduction:
One of the main concerns of the early Methodist
Missionaries who came to India was to provide education for all, more
specifically for the girl child and women who were discriminated
against by the then prevailing society. Indian women, a century
back, and even often now were never taught to or to hold personal
opinion on the question anything, leave alone their own faith.
Bishop J.M. Thoburn, one of the great pioneers of
Methodism in India writes that at least the Corinthian woman was given
the option to go home and ask her husband, if she did not understand
something, but the Indian woman was not even allowed to do so.
Firstly, because she is not supposed to know. Secondly, her
desire to read is considered presumptuous. Thirdly, her longing
to learn is certainly punished by the god’s themselves with
widowhood. This fear was prevalent, he writes, in all classes of
people.
Thus down through the ages, in our country, women
were not allowed to read, learn or understand things for
themselves. One of the reasons given for the same was that there
is nothing fit for them to read. This lack of reading material,
lack of the opportunity to engage in intellectual discussion with
others, and lack of proper guidance in spiritual matters, served as a
deterrent to their wholistic development as unique individuals created
in the image of God.
Of course, the situation has relatively improved
since then. However, there are schools and colleges for
girls. Women are now given opportunity in various vocations,
trade and skills. Even Churches send a handful of women for
theological education. A couple or so are given the opportunity
to lead mixed Bible study groups and one or two women are allowed
to preach off and on from the pulpit.
Doesn’t sound very encouraging does it? But
this is the reality.
Denial of Theological Education:
Denial of Theological Education to women is directly
linked with certain factors such as patriarchy, socialization, sex role
stereotyping and discounting women’s spirituality.
Pursuing education, most often than not, consciously
or unconsciously is a thing decided or imposed by the elders in the
family. Going for theological education, was not an option open
for me. In fact the family did all they could to oppose and
suppress my decision. How I had my way is another story.
Young people as they grow into adulthood learn that
as representatives of a particular sex, they ought to behave in a
particular manner. They learn that females are
expected to play different roles from males. They
learn to believe in myths for example, clergy should be all male,
they learn that Bible is taught better by men because they are
intellectually superior than women.
A lot of educational research has been done into
this aspect. It is found that the extent of internalization of
values regarding women’s low profile position is evident in the
selection of courses offered by male and female students in
college. For example, boys generally select subjects that lead to
high profile jobs, whereas girls choose these feminine subjects which
lead to low profile jobs which primarily lead to subjugation of women
by men.
Women are denied the right to theological in the
Church. For example, in one of the Churches, Bible Study Leaders,
Workshop was conducted late in the evening when only men could
attend. Why this discrimination that only husbands must
attend? Must women stay back to take care of cooking and
children? Why not vice-versa. In another Church, in the Lay
Training Programme, there were only 12 men and no women. So what
are we communicating by that? That women can do without
theological education because after all they don’t need to teach
theology. Somehow the notion continues that it is imperative for
men to learn the skills of leading Bible Study for women it can be
optional or even unnecessary.
Women’s Spirituality
The question that we consciously need to ask is -
What has happened to all the stories and
contribution of our ‘Fore-mothers’? Why are there only Patriarchs
in the Bible? Why do Patriarchs have only sons? Why do we
preach about Eve, Miriam, Sarah, Rebecca, Rachel and about of others as
appendices to their great leader kindreds or brothers? Most often
than not if we do speak about them it is only to discount their
spirituality. To put them down. To over emphasize and
highlight their mistakes and the sins they have committed.
This is true in our teaching, our preaching, our literature, our jokes,
and our attitudes.
What is it that we want to prove? That women’s
spirituality is of no consequence, that it can only lead to sin and
suffering.
Is that it?
One of the main reasons for the emergence of so few women leaders in
the spiritual sphere is not because they are not spiritual enough but
because they are not given equal importance due to the power of
socialization and discounting women’s spirituality.
However, even though men have sought to put down
women’s spirituality and have tried to marginalize their contribution
in religion, culture, literature and history, one cannot negate the
fact that religious traditions still have many many stories of women
who had a great spiritual power, women who have a liberating story to
tell, women who have a prophetic message to proclaim, women who have
deep mystical truths to share. (Let’s name some of them here)
We need to rediscover these rights within our own
denomination and Church. We need to do some research on the lives
of these great women saints, write about them and tell others.
Let people know that in the sight of God women are equal to men.
We are only too well aware of Suzanna Wesley who is
fondly known as the ‘Mother of Methodism.’ While her husband
Samuel Wesley was away, Suzanna started holding services for her
children and the servants and others from the neighbourhood in her
house. She was convinced that “Those who have the honour of
speaking to the great and holy God need not to be ashamed to speak
before the whole world.” There was a great Revival. But as
expected, Samuel Wesley was very displeased. Even though he
recognised her intellect and spirituality, it was an unheard of thing
to allow women to conduct services. So he asked her to
discontinue.
But Suzanna was made of a different mettle.
She immediately wrote back saying that if he thought that she should
stop preaching then he must not say that he desired for her to do so,
because that would not satisfy her conscience. She insisted on
him sending her his positive command in such authoritative terms
that she may be absolved of all guilt and punishment for neglecting
this opportunity of doing good, when both of them stood before God on
the great Judgment Day.
Of course, her husband did not reply to the same.
Let us go back to Jesus’ time
“Theologically Trained Women in Jesus time”
Women were theologically equipped in Jesus time.
How can I say:
- Mary’s knowledge and deep relationship with God. Lk. 1:46-56.
- Prophets Anna spoke about the child Jesus - to all who will look for
the redemption
of Jerusalem.
- The women who were with Jesus along with the twelve- were learning
all that Jesus had
to teach, particularly Scriptures, good news, learning
straight from the master himself. Lk. 8:1-3.
Mary at the feet of Jesus:
The story of Mary sitting and learning at the feet
of Jesus is a popular story. Lk. 10:38-42.
Obviously, Jesus was not making small talk with
Mary. He was communicating deep theological truths to her.
He even said, “Mary has chosen the better part which will not be taken
away from her.” By this, Jesus had made a very radical
revolutionary statement. In his time, we know that the Jewish men
in their daily prayers thanked God every morning for not making them a
slave, a gentile, a non-Jew or a woman. So much so that Jewish
teachers of law thought it is far better to tear the Torah or Jewish
Scriptures than to allow women to study it.
Jesus broke the tradition:
Jesus commended Mary for being unconventional and
chided Martha for being a stereotype. Mary had chosen to do what
only men were to do in that particular context. i.e. To study, to
learn, to be informed, to discuss, to reason, to understand God’s
word. She liberated herself from the bondage of thousands of
years of tradition.
Anointing Jesus:
The story of Mary anointing Jesus is recorded in
Gospels with some minor changes. Mt. 26: 6-13, Mk. 14:3-9,
Jn. 12:1-8.
It was her theological education that enabled her to
go a step ahead of her male counterparts. While the male
disciples were still struggling and arguing about the peripheral she
went straight to the center. In the midst of men, she performed
the role of a prophet and priest. She anointed the body of
Jesus. Jesus himself acknowledged that she has prepared him for
burial. Anointing could be understood in terms of anointing Jesus
as king and claiming his Messiahship, one who came into this world to
give his life as a ransom for many. By doing this, she crossed
all external barriers. Where did she get the strength to do this
great act. To be better equipped she gave her time and energy
into learning God’s Word so that at the right moment she could do what
other women and men only dreamt of.
Impact of Jesus’ words on Martha:
Jesus’ reply to Martha was also equally liberating
for Martha. If we use our imagination a little bit, we can hear
Jesus saying, Martha you have allowed yourself to be fooled by the myth
that you can please me by actively engaging yourself in household
chores. They are not just for you, there are as much the
responsibility of Lazarus and Mary as yours. If he can sit and
learn so can you. Get yourself free. Martha liberate
yourself. So far you have engaged only your hands for me - engage
your mind now. You have every right to learn. Your world is
too narrow Martha. It is limited to the four walls of the kitchen- and
so is your worldview - widen your horizon and your space. Broaden
your perspective.
There’s more to life than ‘Chulha Chakki’.
Mary has chosen the better part, but so can you. You are equally
privileged. Go for it Martha, Go for it. That did it.
Martha heard Jesus. Once was enough. She set her priorities
right. Dropped the unnecessary chores, rescheduled her time, and
began to engage her mind into the essentials of theology.
We see her again Jn. 11:20f. But this time a
different Martha. Martha discussing theology with Jesus.
And Jesus revealing great spiritual and theological insights to
her. “I am the resurrection and the Life. Those who believe
in me, even though they die, will live and everyone who lives and
believes in me will never die. Do you believe this?” Martha
responds with the most extraordinary reply. “Yes Lord, I believe
that you are the Messiah, the Son of God, the one coming into the
world.”
This was her theological confession, which of course
is very much sidelined simply because it has come from the lips of a
woman. On the other hand, Peter makes a similar confession in Mt.
16:13-18 “You are the Messiah the Son of the Living God.”
But look at Jesus’ response recorded for us.
Three heavily loaded verses:
“Blessed are you, Simon, Son of Jonah, For flesh and blood has not
revealed this to you, but my Father in heaven. And I tell you are
Peter, and on this rock, I will build my church and the gates of Hades
will not prevail against it. I will give you the keys of the
Kingdon of Heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in
heaven and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.”
I am very confident that Jesus said something
exactly the same to Martha, but it is not recorded for us.
Martha’s great confession goes un-noticed. However, we cannot
under-estimate the fact that Martha’s response is a result of her
personal spirituality and theological understanding coupled with the
inspiration of the Holy Spirit as much as that of Peter’s.
In my mind’s eye Martha is as important as Peter,
but sadly her contribution is ignored and discounted, while Peter is
exalted. Is God partial? Or is the Church responsible for
this neglect?
Conclusion:
In the long history of the Church, How many women
have received theological education? How many women can be counted as
theologians in their own right? What definite steps have been
taken to encourage women for theological education? Where
are the theological educators from your church? Where are the
ordained women? Where are the Women Bishops? Why this waste?
These are some hard questions that we need to ask
ourselves.
Let us arise and awake in this Millennium itself, or
else we may have only ourselves to blame. It is time the Church
set right its teaching and its emphasis. It is time we women
realized that we have a definite contribution to make in the life of
the Church. Some of us may be called to rewrite women’s
history. Some to study and teach theology, others to interpret
scriptures from a woman’s perspective, still others to make theology
relevant to our needs and times today. Who will do this? When
will we women rise to the occasion? This is the time. Let
us awake, arise and achieve.
Let us listen to the still small voice not recorded
in the Bible but is nevertheless ‘exist’ there saying: Let us say
to ourselves, I am willing to believe in myself, in God’s pulpit, in
God’s theology, God’s ordination is open for me. I will build my
church on you Mary - on you Martha, on you (put your name)
Let us thank God that all spiritual gifts are
equally distributed to women and men, be it teaching, preaching,
prophesying, speaking in tongues, interpretation of tongues,
administration, evangelist, pastor neither wisdom, knowledge, faith,
working of miracles, and discernment of spirits (Ep. 4:11-12; 1
Cor. 12:4-11). God is not partial God calls all for God’s
ministry and God gives to all liberally. What more Scriptural
proof do we want to allow women not only to receive theological
education but also to be able to use their spiritual gifts and talents
for the equipping of saints and betterment of society.
Let us pray in the words of St. Paul.
Phil 1: 9-10.
“.... And this is my prayer, that your love may overflow more and more
with knowledge and full insight to help you to determine what is
best....” Amen.